Saturday, May 31, 2008

"Virtual sex" addiction will be against it

The rapid development of Internet technology to a "virtual life" to become a reality, people can not only work in front of the computer learning, recreation, but also homes on the Internet shopping, chat friends, Tanqingshuoai. Networks like stealth tentacles, extending from fingertip to all corners of the world, expanding human activities in space, while the opposite direction to expand the human disease patterns. "Virtual sex" is accompanied by information technology have emerged one of the acts. The so-called virtual sex means that the parties are not actual physical contact by the way, but by telephone, text messaging, Internet chat and audio, video and other tools, through text, sound or images, and other ways to stimulate the thrill of access to sexual and meet. Virtual sex act itself is not sick, but if excessive reliance on it to satisfy the sexual desires, it will lead to a "virtual sex addiction", the real-life damage. The awareness of young people just wake up Meng, is a "virtual sex addiction," the high incidence of groups. Because, on the one hand, individual puberty, the physical and mental development of the opposite sex to have a natural curiosity, impulsivity and fantasy on the other hand, social, cultural and moral standards also require individuals to suppress sexual impulses. In such circumstances, a certain security and anonymity of the Internet has become young people to explore sexual knowledge, troubleshooting a means of impulse. Young people may be part of a fortuitous opportunity to experience some form of virtual sex, sex-related experience with the cause of dopamine in the brain, such as endorphin secretion of neurotransmitters, bringing in high Nanhuannvai Excitement and joy of the experience. But such excitement and experience for young people is too strong, they can not extricate themselves vulnerable to them. In addition, because young people have not yet established a mature sex and sexual moral values, in a virtual sex, like masturbation, often accompanied by shame, guilt, the idea of self-blame, the impact of their academic, personal and mental health development. In addition, virtual sex from sexual impulses, may also lead young people to the edge of crime. In adults, there are a considerable number of people indulging in virtual sex. Because the Internet for people to provide sufficient room for imagination and create the perfect sex object. Masturbation as a form of extension, many people think that its innocuous, is the life of the swap goods. However, over the moderate and often difficult to grasp the scale. Some people in life are拘谨contacts with the opposite sex, the Internet is at home, the charm full. Although the compensation of their networks in real life has not been part of the need to meet, making the individual subject to strengthen. On the other hand, this has affected their life in human development. Although there are some people in the life of a partner, but because their feelings gradually become dull, so to virtual sex, to seek a new stimulus. In time, in real life it would be difficult to maintain the relationship between stability and a long-term. In short, virtual sex itself is not a scourge, but if its work, academic, interpersonal, marriage relations and other areas had a negative impact on the virtual sex may have been from the moderate fun become "addicted." First of all addicts to reduce the time spent online. Second, to spend more time with a partner with, or participate in the reality of life in social activities. For young people, carried out sex education in schools on the basis of the opposite sex to the normal exchanges and friendship, and help them to ease the appropriate way "of" pressure. If addiction is serious and should be turned to professional psychologists.

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